The prediction and prevention of marital distress: an international perspective

The prediction and prevention of marital distress: an international perspective

ClinicalPsychology Rev&, Vol. 13, pp. 29-43, 1993 Printed in the USA. All rights reserved. Copyright 0272.7358/93 $6.00 + .OO 0 1993 Pergamon Press ...

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ClinicalPsychology Rev&, Vol. 13, pp. 29-43, 1993 Printed in the USA. All rights reserved.

Copyright

0272.7358/93 $6.00 + .OO 0 1993 Pergamon Press Ltd.

THE PREDICTION AND PREVENTION MARITAL DISTRESS: AN INTERNATIONAL PERSPECTIVE

OF

Howard /. Markman University

of Denver

Kurt Hahlweg Braunschweig

ABSTRACT.

University

This art&presents the con@tual and empirical ration&for attentionto thepreventtin of

marital distress. Tk like of research+r the United States, its history, and then the results of a German repltiatzimand extension study are presented. The results suggest the possibilitiesjr preventing marital distress through teachingcouples to improve communicationand to handle conflit beforeproblems develop. Implicationsfor future researchare discussed.

The objectives of this article are to review the current and potential contributions of applying the principles of a prevention science to marital and family problems, to review a line of longitudinal research on the prediction of marital distress that sets apart the empirical and theoretical foundations for a prevention science for couples, briefly review a line of prevention a German

research in the United States, and present for the first time the results of

replication

and extension

study.

RATIONALE

FOR PREVENTION

The basic rationale for prevention as opposed to a treatment perspective on mental health problems, in general, is that treatment programs are akin to closing the proverbial barn door after the horse has left. In the marital and family therapy

area in particular,

great

debate has arisen concerning the long-term efficacy of marital and family intervention, and many have argued that perhaps even the best marital therapy programs make dis-

Paper presented at the 25th Association for Advancement of Behavior Therapy conference, New York, November 199 1. Correspondence should be addressed to Howard J. Markman, Center for Marital and Family Studies, University of Denver, Denver, CO 80208. 29

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tressed couples less distressed rather than truly happy (Hahlweg & Markman, 1988). In contrast, the prevention perspective has the goal of starting with happy couples (even though they may be at risk for future distress) and helping them maintain their relatively high levels of functioning. A more specific rationale summarized

elsewhere

for the prevention

(Fincham

& Bradbury,

of marital 1990;

and family distress has been

Markman,

Floyd,

Stanley,

& Sto-

raasli, 1988). Suffice it to say, marital and family distress is a major social problem, and successful prevention efforts can save untold personal, social, and economic costs (Duncan & Markman,

1988).

The Basic Principles of a Prevention A number

of basic principles

Science Applied

of prevention

to Marital

Distress

science have been recently

articulated

by a

NIMH study group (Coie et al., 1991). Most relevant for the current article are two points linking work in the prevention of marital distress to general mental health issues: 1. The goal of a prevention strategies

science is to provide the knowledge base and intervention

to prevent or ameliorate

a wide range of diverse disorders,

including

all

forms of psychopathology. Prevention science focused on risk and protectiue factors for these disorders, both in terms of increasing understanding of these variables and developing and evaluating intervention strategies to address the risk factors. 2. Prevention

science has identified

a relatively small number

of common risk factors that

underlie a wide variety of psychopathology. Marital distress is one of these common or generic risk factors. Specifically, marital distress has been linked to a wide range of both adult disorders (e.g., depression) and child (e.g., conduct) disorders. In addition, a good marriage is seen as one of the common and generic protective factors against a wide range of dysfunctions (Coie et al., 1991). A science of the prevention

of marital distress includes the following basic principles:

1. An identification of risk and protective factors based on up-to-date theory and research is essential in order to target the component of couples’ relationships for preventive intervention. 2. Preventive interventions can be conceptualized as adding to our knowledge about the phenomena of interest in that the best way to understand a phenomena is to try to change it. In the marital and family psychology field, it is very hard to do experiments. Preventive interventions with their longitudinal components provide one of the best opportunities to conduct experiments that enable us to evaluate change. 3. It is important to recognize that marital distress is not a static outcome measure. Couples may be distressed at one time, but clearly not at another. Here we are not only talking about the fact that most couples are nondistressed when they are married but become distressed later on, but that couples may be nondistressed 5 years but may be distressed 10 years into into marriage, or 7 years into marriage, marriage. 4. Similarly, the antecedents of marital distress, the predictor variables, are also not static entities. Thus, if researchers are interested in personality similarities and how that predicts the distress, they should be aware that different measures and personality at times may produce different indicators of similarity because people do change. Further, communication quality at one point in time may be very different than communication quality at another time. For example, over time, stability indicators

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of communication

quality

negative communication

indicate

average

stability

31

coefficients

and .30 for positive communication

of about

(Clements,

.45 for

1992).

5. Finally, not only are predictor variables not necessarily stable, but there may be differences in predictability based on when the predictor variables are assessed. Thus, for example, we have found that in predicting child outcome for marital functioning variables, indicators of quality of marital interaction during the transition to parenthood are substantially better predictors than premarital variables as well as concurrent

marital interaction

variables (Balaguer

& Markman,

1992).

In the next section we describe briefly our up-to-date findings on the prediction of marital distress and divorce that provide the empirical basis for our prevention program.

DENVER FAMILY DEVELOPMENT The divorce rate indicates

STUDY: NEW LONGITUDINAL

that one in every two marriages

does include the countless other marriages

FINDINGS

will end in divorce,

and this

that are distressed but stable (National

Center

for Health Statistics, 1989). Despite the enormous social costs of divorce and distress, there is virtually no longitudinal research about the causes of marital distress. The present study was designed to test the hypothesis that premarital couples who are unable to handle differencesin their relationship will be those at highest risk for future divorce and distress. A secondary goal was to provide basic descriptive information on the course of relationship development

in the early years of marriage,

marital and family interactions. Early studies investigating the prediction personality

when the basic foundations

are laid for future

of marital distress focused on compatibility

of

and values, and revealed that these factors were generally not strongly related

to future marital happiness (Gottman, 1979). In contrast, studies of marital interaction have revealed strong associations between communication quality and marital happiness (e.g., Gottman, Markman, & Notarius, 1977). However, because most of these studies were cross-sectional,

inferences

are limited to the concomitants

rather than determinants

of marital distress. Since marital discord is a major risk factor for both adult and child psychopathology, and a major social problem in its own right, longitudinal studies of the evolution of marital discord are a research priority (Coie et al., 1991). While there have been other important longitudinal studies of marriage

that have

assessed the predictive power of marital interaction

Filsinger,

1988; Gottman & Krokoff, 1989), th e current marriage and assessed predistress functioning;

and related constructs

(e.g.,

study differs in that it (a) started before (b) continues through the primary risk

period for divorce, enabling the prediction of divorce as well as marital satisfaction; and (c) assesses communication annually to detect changes in important dimensions of marital interaction. Building

on these previous

efforts and our earlier longitudinal

research

(Markman,

1981), we examined the extent to which couples constructively or destructively handled differences when discussing problems before marriage-predicted divorce and marital distress 6 years later. Guiding our attention to the discussing/arguing process was the following model of the development of marital distress. We start with the assumption that couples entering marriage are faced with two major tasks: (a) handling conflict and disagreements and (b) maintaining and promoting intimacy. We assume that most couples will encounter problems and disagreements and that it is the couple’s ability to handle differences (not the differences themselves) that will be the critical factor in determining future marital success (Storaasli & Markman, 1990). F ur th er, since handling differences often requires

expressing

and receiving

negative

feelings in a constructive

manner,

the

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ability to regulate negative affect is highlighted as an important associate of marital success. In other words, couples must learn how to argue constructively, rather than destructively. Based on recent studies, we expect that there will be differences in how men and women handle conflict in marriage (Gottman & Krokoff, 1989; Markman & Kraft, 1989; Notarius & Pellegrini, 1987). In contrast to conventional wisdom, we believe that men do not have trouble with intimacy and connection in marriage, but do have more difficulty than women handling

conflict and negative emotions.

As noted by Gottman

(1983),

“In a sea

of conflict, men sink, women swim.” While we believe this is due to a complicated set of biological, sociological, and psychological factors (see Markman & Kraft, 1989, for details), it is beyond the scope of this paper to search for the cause of these gender differences. Here we predict that, as unresolved disagreements fester and worsen over time, men and women attempt to cope but use different styles: Women try to establish intimacy and connection by directly expressing psychological pain, while men increasingly withdraw to avoid conflict. These synergistic patterns fuel negative escalation cycles. Consistent with clinical experience, we speculate that men may not express their feelings because of fear of conflict, inadvertently increasing chances of destructive conflict, including verbal and physical abuse. Thus we test the hypothesis that husband withdrawal and wife invalidation will be among the best predictors of divorce assessed in the early stages of the relationship.

and distress

when interaction

is

Method Subjects.

The subjects were 135 couples planning

marriage

for the first time,

recruited

through communitywide publicity to participate in a study on relationship development. The demographic characteristics at Time 1 were as follows: Average time that the partners had known each other was 2Y2 years (range

= 4-48

months);

average age of women was

23 years (range = 18-31); average age of men was 24 years (range = 18-32); average years of education were 15l/2 (range = 12-18); and average personal income level was $10,500

(range

= $5,000-$20,000

or more). While there was some diversity in ethnicity,

most of the couples were white. Furthermore, 40 % of the couples were planning marriage and 60% were formally engaged, 80% of the couples were sexually active, and 39% were living together. Procedures.

There

have been eight procedural

phases: pre-assessment

(PRE),

interven-

tion, postassessment (Post), and 11/2- (FUl), 3- (FU2), 4- (FU3), 5- (FU4), and 6-year (FU5) follow-ups. The 7-year follow-up is almost complete, and the 8-year follow-up started in April 1989. The g-year follow-up started in July 1990. This article presents data up to the 6-year follow-up. Pre-Assessment. Couples participated in two 2-hr research sessions that were scheduled 1 week apart. During these sessions, couples were interviewed, completed a set of questionnaires, and participated in four 15-min videotaped problem-solving interaction tasks. The tasks were a discussion of a vignette from the Inventory of Marital Conflicts (Olson & Ryder, 1970) and a discussion of one of the couple’s top three relationship,problem areas. Each of these tasks was completed twice, once using a procedure to rate each other’s communication and once without this procedure, in a randomly determined order. After the initial sessions, a subset of couples were randomly assigned to a couples’ communication program (see Markman, Floyd, Stanley, & Storaasli, 1988, for details). The interven-

Predicttimand Prevention

tion couples are included in this article,

even though their developmental

somewhat

different

due to the intervention.

population

some couples do take advantage of premarital

tional analyses, comparing reveal similar patterns.

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This

reflects

course may be

the fact that in the general

intervention

the results with and without intervention

programs.

Correla-

couples,

generally

Post-Assessment and Follow-Ups 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5. Six to eight weeks after the preassessment

phase, all couples participated

in a postassessment

session (Post), during which

they were readministered the questionnaires and engaged in another series of problemsolving interactions. At approximately yearly intervals, couples participated in follow-up sessions.

Couples

who had moved or who did not want to return to the research

were asked to complete the questionnaire battery at home and return procedures were essentially the same at each follow-up.

Measures. This section describes the self-report and communication

center

it by mail.

measures

The

relevant to

the current article. A full description of the measures for the entire study is presented elsewhere (Markman, Duncan, Storaasli, & Howes, 1987). These inventories were completed independently

by both partners at each assessment

point.

Personal History /?wm. This form assesses demographic including age, ethnic background, orientations, income, education, child care arrangements, birth activity, and contraception

socioeconomic

and miscellaneous

status (SES),

employment

information status, career

occupation, reasons for having or not having children, date of children, religion, therapy experience, sexual

use.

Marital Adjustment Test (MAT, Locke & Wallace, 1959). The MAT is a 15-item

self-

report measure covering such domains of marital functioning as disagreement, communication, leisure-time activities, and regrets about having married their spouse. The MAT is one of the most widely used measures of marital adjustment in the field, and studies have shown it to possess high levels of reliability and validity. A premarital version was used at Time

1 (Markman,

1979).

Marital Agendas Protocol (MAI: Notarius & Venzetti, 1984). The MAP assesses intensity of each of 10 commonly as confidence demonstrated

experienced

Relationship Status. A central (married,

problem areas (e.g.,

money, sex, children),

in being able to solve problems (i.e., relationship efficacy). its reliability and validity (Notarius & Venzetti, 1984).

divorced,

outcome

measure

as well

Research

in the study is relationship

has

stability

separated).

The Couple Interaction Scoring System KISS, Gottman, 1979; Notarius & Markman, 1981). The CISS is a microanalytic behavioral observation system for couples that contains 36 verbal codes and 3 nonverbal codes used to code each unit of interaction (i.e., a grammatical clause). Each unit receives a verbal and a nonverbal code. As suggested by Notarius and Pellegrini (1987), the content and affect codes can be combined to form four summary codes: (problem-solving facilitation, problem-solving inhibition, emotional validation and emotional invalidation). Cohen’s kappas average .91 for content codes and .72 for nonverbal behavior codes (Gottman, 1979; Notarius & Markman, 1981). Generaliza-

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bility studies reveal both content and nonverbal alpha coefficients (Gottman, 1979).

behavior

codes to have high Cronbach

Results Relationship

Status. Of the original

135 couples,

103 married

before marriage (24%). Of the couples who married, have separated, and 1 spouse has died. Attrition.

The actual attrition

rate (i.e.,

subjects

(76%)

14 couples (13%)

and 32 broke up have divorced,

who decided not to participate)

3

is less

than 4% (5 couples). This leaves 83 intact couples who continue to participate in the study, 67 of whom come to the research center and 16 of whom are out of town and complete forms by mail. Compared to the other marital interaction studies where the average sample size is about 25 (Notarius

& Markman,

1989) the current

sample is still relatively

large. Relationship Satisfaction Over Time. Previous studies have indicated that relationship satisfaction is highest before marriage, gradually declines over time, and then rises after children leave home (Spanier,

Lewis, & Cole,

1975). Because

the majority

of studies are

cross-sectional, conclusions are limited. Our results reveal that relationship satisfaction was highest at pre-assessment (MAT M = 122) and declined at Follow-Up 1 (MAT M = 119) and Follow-Up 2 (MAT M = 113), but, in contrast to previous research, stabilized at Follow-Ups

3, 4, and 5 (see Figure 1).

One consistent

finding from the earliest studies to recent times is that husbands

are

Legend

130

m

Male Female

Post FIGURE

( Follow-u 2 1 Follow-u 4 ( Follow-up 6 Follow-up 1 Pollow-up 3 Pallow-up 5 I. Marital

Satisfaction

Over Time.

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happier with marriage than wives (Gottman, 1979; Spanier et al., 1975), leading to the statement that marriage may be “better” for men than for women (Stroebe & Stroebe, 1983). As seen in Figure 1, in sharp contrast to previous research, wives reported significantly higher levels of marital satisfaction at every stage than did husbands. Our findings may mirror changes in society that have brought increased options for women and/or reflect the change in sex ratios that started in 1980, which has resulted in more available men than women. F. Pederson (personal communication, April 1990) suggested that the increased competition may be contributing to men “working harder” at marriage. Finally, 30% of our couples maintain or improve levels of marital satisfaction over time, suggesting that declines are not inevitable. In contrast to prevailing beliefs, we suggest that feelings of intimacy

and closeness

negative interactions Communication

do not passively

(Markman

and Marital

& Kraft,

decay over time,

but are actively

eroded

by

1989).

Distress

Overview. In this section we present results on the role of premarital communication quality in the development of divorce and marital distress. The results of univariate and multivariate

analyses of variance are presented with group (distressed

and gender as the independent

variables,

and premarital

indicators

and nondistressed) of relationship

func-

tioning as the dependent variables. Parallel analyses covarying premarital satisfaction yielded the same general pattern of results and so are not presented here. Couples were defined as distressed if one partner scored below 100 on the MAT at FU5 and/or if they were separated or divorced, and as nondistressed if both partners scored above 100 on the MAT at each follow-up point. This definition resulted in 36 distressed and 40 nondistresed couples.

The average MAT scores were 91 and 125 for the distressed

and nondistressed

groups, respectively. In this article we focus on the results of the problem discussion task because it represents the most ecologically valid assessment of couples’ interaction we have available. We compared the premarital interaction of the two groups using the new CBS summary codes. The results are presented in Table 1. As seen in Table 1, there were significant differences

in problem-solving

facilitation

and in problem-solving

inhibition-but

only for

TABLE 1. CISS Predictors of Distress Premarital

Distressed

Nondistressed

F

Communication Variables

(CISS)

Husband

Wife

Husband

Wife

Husband

Wife

Problem-Solving Facilitation

60.6

63.7

70.6

68.0

10.8**

2.5

Problem-Solving

11.7

7.1

5.0

5.0

9.2**

2.7*

Emotional Validation

18.3

19.2

18.8

21.6

Emotional

9.5

10.0

5.6

5.5

Inhibition

Invalidation Note. NS = nonsignificant. *p < .lO. **p < .Ol. ***p

< ,001.

NS

2.0

8.8**

12.0***

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the males.

and

Males who were destined to become

K. Hahlwec

distressed

or divorced had significantly

lower levels of problem-solving facilitation and significantly higher levels of problemsolving inhibition compared to the males who were destined to remain happy. It is noteworthy that only the male interactional behaviors predicted outcome for these two summary categories. These summary categories can be conceptualized as codes that have to do with conflict management.

One tentative conclusion

is that how males handle conflict in a

relationship is more important in terms of predicting the future than how females handle conflict. This fits emerging data on differences between men and women in distressed relationships (Baucom, Notarius, Burnett, & Haefner, 1990; Christensen & Shenk, 1991; Gottman & Krokoff, 1989; Markman & Kraft, 1989). There were significant differences for both males and females for the invalidation summary

codes. Couples

who were destined

higher levels of invalidation

to go on to be distressed

during their premarital

interaction

or divorced

had

than couples who were

destined to remain nondistressed. Contrary to our initial expectations and most theories of marriage, there were no differences, however, on the validation code. Thus, it is not the amount of validation received that seems to be critical for the future but instead, invalidation. When we asked couples in seminars and studies what their major goal was in marrying, they emphasized the importance of having someone who will listen to and understand them-in other words, to validate! When expecting validation, however, for a partner to be actively criticized and put down is extremely arousing and provocative, can generate major arguments and be costly to the relationship over time.

and

In sum, the results show that we can predict marital distress and divorce from examining premarital interaction; and the best predictors of divorce (male withdrawal from conflict, negative affect escalation, conflict) appear to be related to how well couples (especially

men)

regulate

and express

negative

affect when they disagree.

The

reults

suggest that couples who go on to develop marital problems and divorce show patterns of dysfunctional affect regulation while trying to resolve relationship issues. These

findings

echo earlier

findings

from the current

study and other

reports

in

progress indicating that quality of the premarital communication is one of the best predictors of future outcomes for a relationship. Thus it is not the differences between people so much that matters, The Prevention

but how those differences

and Relationship

are handled.

Enhancement

Program (PREP)

Building on the empirical foundation of longitudinal approach to helping couples prevent marital problems

research, we have developed an by teaching them how to handle

differences through effective communication and conflict management. Although there is evidence to support the affectiveness of the PREP program with a U.S. sample (see Markman et al., 1988; Markman, Renick, Floyd, Stanley, & Clements, in press; Renick, Blumberg, & Markman, 1992), there are numerous design problems with this study, including a high rate of couples declining the initial offer of a PREP intervention and the relatively small sample size and relatively homogeneous population in the study. A study was therefore undertaken in Germany in part to address some of the limitations of this initial study.

THE GERMAN PREMARITAL PREVENTION STUDY (EPL: EIN PARTNERSCHAFTLICHES LERNPROCRAMM) The rationale for divorce prevention

programs

in Germany

is similar to that in the United

States. The divorce rate is above 33% and is expected to increase with unification,

since

Predzhhn and Prevention

the divorce rate in East Germany 1980).

The demand

for marital

was considerably

therapy

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higher

is equally increasing,

(Duss-von

Werdt & Fuchs,

as evidenced

by the long

waiting lists of marital counselling agencies. At the same time, marriage and the family is highly valued, since over 90% of the population do strongly believe in marriage and in family life (Kocher, 1985). In Germany premarital

counselling

is primarily

done by the Catholic

church because

some form of counselling is required before the couple is allowed to marry in the church. The counselling varies from talking 15 minutes to a priest up to participating in a weeklong activity. The content of the programs varies accordingly, and the programs are delivered by leaders/teachers from many different professions, and notably by lay priests. Many of the enrichment programs developed so far focus on current and future religious practices,

highlight

areas of agreement

and disagreement

concerning

intimate

rela-

tionships and expectations for marriage, and enlighten couples concerning current and potential future personality problems. The mode of transmission is often group discussions, lectures by experienced couples, or couples’ discussions without much direct guidance by the workshop leaders or modification of the couples’ communication process. To our knowledge,

none of the programs

has been evaluated longitudinally

with regard to its

effectiveness in preventing marital distress. For the purposes of this article, we will first describe the development of a culturally relevant marital distress prevention program for German couples, the EPL. Next we will present the short-term (pre-post) results of the EPL, when compared to a control group using data from self-report measures and from behavioral observations of couples discussing a conflictual

partnership

problem.

Development of EPL In 1985/86 we (i.e.,

the Munich

group’ in collaboration

with the first author) modified the

PREP in order to satisfy the needs of German couples and to respect the financial restrictions of the typical Catholic prevention program. For example, it was impossible for a routine application of EPL to use more than two trainers for a group of four couples. EPL can be delivered either in six weekly sessions of about 2-hr duration or at a weekend meeting. Group sizes vary from three to live couples with two trainers for each group. The couples meet as a group for the lecture portions of the sessions but meet alone and work with a trainer for all other aspects of each session. At the end of each session, a homework assignment is given. Below, each session is briefly reviewed.

Session 1. The first two sessions deal primarily with communications

skills training.

After

the introduction, a lecture is delivered covering two areas: (a) the philosophy and goals of the program and its theological relevance, and (b) the importance of good communication skills for marriage. The goals are teaching communication and problem-solving skills and helping the couple to apply these newly learned skills to discuss relationship and sexual issues and their theology, using the wedding ceremony

expectations

as a starting point.

‘The Munich group is K. Hahlweg, TU Braunschweig, Institut fur Psychologie, Spielmannstr. 12a, 3300 Braunschweig, Germany; F. Thurmaier, J. Eckert, and J. Engel, Institut fur Forschung und Ausbildung in Kommunikationstherapie e.V., Ruckertstr. 9,800O Munchen 2, Germany; and H. J. Markman, University of Denver, Center for Marital and Family Studies, Department of Psychology, Denver, Colorado 80208, USA.

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Session 2. The second session is devoted to the expression way the partner should respond to such a self-disclosure. couples practice these skills alone. Session 3. In this session a structured live steps: 1. Both partners

problem-solving

of negative feelings and to the During 75% of the time, the

scheme is introduced,

convey their views of the conflict,

disclosing

consisting

their feelings,

and attitudes toward the problem, and give mutual feedback. communication skills learned in the first two sessions.

of

thoughts,

In sum, they use the

2. Each partner describes his needs and wishes regarding the problem. 3. The couple tries to generate specific solutions to the conflict in a brainstorming fashion. 4. Every solution generated is discussed regarding its positive or negative consequences when applied, and the best solutions are selected. 5. The couple plans how to implement the solutions into everyday life. In the next session implementation

is reviewed, and solutions are changed according

to the need

of the couple. Session

4. This session begins with a lecture on the concept of expectations

and the effects

they can have on a relationship. The remainder of the session is spent having the couples discuss some of their expectations regarding their marriage with the help of the trainer and using the communication

skills.

Session 5. This session is devoted to communication

in the sexual domain,

stressing the

fact that ineffective or nonexistent communication about sexual needs and wishes may lead to sexual dissatisfaction. Each couple has to rank order cards with a concept printed on it such as happiness, fantiy, creativity, body contact, orgasm, relaxation, tenderness, love, and reproduction. Couples can also decide to build a house using the cards. Cards at the basement are more important than cards (concepts) further up. The aim is to discuss the meaning of the concepts for the individual and the marriage. Session 6 (When the EPL Is Used With Catholic Couples). The theme of Session 6 is the meaning of Christian marriage for the couple. Using the wedding ceremony (Trauritus) as a starting point, the couple discusses the relevance and for their future relationship.

of Christian

marriage

for each other

Method Overview. The main aim of the study was to evaluate the effectiveness of EPL in a randomized trial, contrasting EPL couples with a control group of couples receiving a conventional Catholic premarital enrichment program. However, contrary to our expectations and despite our efforts, we could not recruit couples and randomize them to the experimental or control condition because couples in the Catholic church book a specific course advertised in a booklet that is published annually. Recruitment of couples using other channels was not successful. Therefore, our trial was quasi-experimental in design. We were able to recruit 77 EPL couples from Munich or from the rural area around Munich. EPL was received weekly by 34%) and 66% received it on a weekend. The control group consisted of two different kinds of couples: 18 couples participating

Prediction and Preuention

in a conventional advertisement

marital

enrichment

program

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and 14 couples

who responded

to an

in a newspaper and who received no marital preparation.

Assessment

points were pre and post the intervention.

way, and a 3-year follow-up is planned. Assessments and direct observation of the couple’s communication

A il/z year follow-up is under-

included a variety of questionnaires behavior when discussing a relation-

ship problem. Subjects. Partners

had a mean age of 28 years. Eighty percent

were Catholic;

of those,

38% regarded themselves as religious, with 40% regarding themselves as not religious. They had known each other for about 4 years, and 58 % were living together. Eighty-eight percent were certain to marry each other in the 2).

nmrfutum, on average

in 5 months (see Table

Couples in the EPL and the two control groups did not differ in the socioeconomic

relationship

variables,

except that EPL couples had a slightly better education

and

level than

control couples. There were no differences between the two control groups. When compared with the couples in the PREP experiment, our couples were older (28 vs. 24 years) and dating longer (4 vs. 2’/2 years). As in the Markman were generally middle class and white.

Procedures

Procedures.

were matched

study, our couples

as closely as possible to the original Markman

et

al. study as described earlier.

TABLE

2. Pre-Post

KPI

Relative

Frequencies

EPL

for EPL

and Control

Group F

Control

KPI Variables

Pre

Post

Pre

Post

Self-Disclosure

13.7

14.5

11.0

10.1

2.3

3.6

2.0

1.4

NS

NS NS NS NS NS NS ** *

Positive Solution Acceptance

of Partner

Agreement Criticism Negative

Solution

Justification

3.4

10.2

2.6

1.8

13.7

17.8

15.6

16.4

2.2

4.0

1.6

1.1

1.1

0.7

0.8

1.0

2.2

1.3

2.2

0.8

Disagreement

14.2

6.3

12.3

11.8

Problem

34.0

30.2

39.8

43.0

Description

Metacommunication

1.8

2.3

1.1

1.7

Positive Nonverbal

80.4

90.7

79.6

79.7

Negative

11.1

2.9

5.0

2.9

Nonverbal

Pre

Post

*

** *** ****

NS **

NS NS NS NS **** **** NS **** NS

Note. After the training, EPL couples showed highly significant improvements in their communication behavior, specifically an increase in “self-disclosure,” “partner acceptance,” and “positive solution,” and a decrease in “disagreement” when compared to the control group. Control couples emitted significantly more “problem description” than the EPL couples. Furthermore, in the nonverbal domain after the training, EPL couples were significantly more positive than couples in the control group. No sex differences on any variables emerged. NS = nonsignificant. *p < .lO. **p < .05. ***p < .Ol. ****p < .OOl.

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fre-Assessment. Couples participated in a 1.5-2-hr research session. During this session, partners were interviewed, completed a set of questionnaires independently, and were asked to discuss one of the couple’s top three relationship

problem areas.

Postassessment. Six to eight weeks later, all couples participated session, in which the same set of questionnaires were readministered discussion was videotaped.

in a similar research and another problem

In the follow-up sessions underway or to come, the procedures

will be essentially the same. Measures 1. Marital Adjustment 7&t (MAT).

See Method section.

2. Problem inventory. This 18-item inventory assesses each partner’s perceived level of conflict in different areas of the relationship (e.g., money, in-laws, sex, communication). A high relationship.

score

for an individual

indicates

a high level of conflict

in the

3. KPI (Hahlweg et al., 1984). The couples were asked to discuss one of the couple’s three top relationship problem areas. The behavior of both partners during the videotaped interactions

was coded using the KPI.

The aim of the KPI is to assess empirically

the

speaker and listener skills that form the basis of behaviorally oriented communication and problem-solving training. The basic coding unit is a verbal response that is homogenous in content without regard to its duration or syntactical structure. The KPI consists of 11 verbal and 3 nonverbal categories. Reliability has been sufficiently high for the verbal and nonverbal codes (kappa > 0.80). Tapes were coded by two independent raters who were blind to couple status and assessment time. Results Marital Quality. A rather unexpected finding emerged when the couples’ marital quality at pretest were analyzed. Using a cutoff score of 100 on the MAT, 17 % of the EPL couples rated their relationship as low in relationship quality, and in 14% one partner rated it as low, the other as high in relationship

quality. In the control group,

88% of the couples

rated their relationship as high, 12% as mixed in quality. One can assume that the motivation for participating in an EPL group was very different according to the respective relationship quality: Couples with high quality were looking for premarital enrichment, while couples with mixed or low relationship quality may have used the EPL as an aid to decide whether to stay together or to separate. In order to investigate the preventive effects of the EPL and to conduct the closest replication

as possible to the Markman

et al.

study, we will present data only on the 81 couples with high marital quality (53 EPL, 28 control group; mean MAT score = 123.1; SD = 12.0). Th ere were no significant differences between the EPL and the control group couples in the socioeconomic and partnership variables. Again, the two control groups did not differ significantly on any of the variables. analysis.

Therefore,

it seemed appropriate

to collapse both control groups for the further

Pre-Post Results. Marital quality and problem inten+. When analyzing the MAT and problem-intensity scores using analysis of covariance with prescores as covariate, no significant differences between EPL and control couples emerged. KPZ. After the training EPL couples showed higher significant improvements in their

Prediction and Prevention

communication .04),

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behavior, specifically an increase in self-disclosure

acceptance

of partner

(F(1,

161) = 74.9,

(F(1,

161) = 6.4, p <

p < .OOl), and positive solution

(F(1,

161) = 9.4, p < .003), and a decrease in disagreement (F(1, 161) = 20.3, p < .OOl) and problem description (F(1, 161) = 17.2, p < .OOl) when compared to the control group. Furthermore, in the nonverbal domain after training, EPL couples were significantly more positive (F(1, 161) = 10.9, p < .OOl) than couples in the control group (see Table 2). When looking at the pre-post

results, the EPL seems to be very successful in teaching

the couples the necessary communication

skills.

Discussion While there were no significant differences between the EPL and the control group (both high in marital quality) in the subjective measure at post, highly significant differences were found with regard to couples’ interaction when discussing a relationship issue. In general, the EPL seems to be very effective in teaching couples to communicate better after the training.

These findings stress the importance

data simultaneously. By and large, the results parallel

of using subjective

those of the Markman

study and provide

evidence for cross-national effectiveness of PREP. To conclude, the EPL/PREP seems to be a very efficient program marital distress. mendations training.

Couples

seem to like the EPL very much,

and objective strong

for the prevention

as evidenced

of

by their recom-

to their friends and when looking at couples’ written statements

at the end of

We are eager to see the results of the 3rd-year follow-up.

Conclusions We have attempted to illustrate a model linking prevention research that we feel has the possibilities for making important contributions to a science of the prevention of marital distress. The next step in both programs of research is to (a) modify the content of the prevention program based on the new data revealed about the factors that predict marital distress and on the outcome of the prevention trials, and (b) to deal with issues of selection effects in interpreting

the results of prevention

trials. In both cases it may be that couples

who selected and completed the intervention may be those couples who are destined to have more successful communication and more successful relationships in the short and long run. One way for future research to deal with these selection effects is to recruit couples just for intervention purposes and then to assign to one or more prevention trials and then to a no-intervention control group. We discuss these issues and provide an example of such a study elsewhere (Markman et al., in press; Renick et al., 1992). While we await the long-term results of the two studies and others that are under way, we remain cautiously optimistic about the possibilities of preventing marital and family distress. At the same time, we need to be aware in disseminating these results to professionals and couples that we are not offering a “warranty” against all problems in the future (Weiss, 1991). The PREP/EPL approach can be applied to other more at-risk populations (e.g., couples at risk for depression and couples who are at risk for abuse or are mildly abusive) in the context of a prediction and prevention design to the extent that marital distress is a risk factor for these outcomes. Moreover, we need to assess the indirect and radiating effects of preventive interventions such as PREP/EPL to other variables including child functioning, be done.

work functioning,

and health status. There is clearly a lot of work to

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